What’s the difference between running your business and your life? You can't run your personal life like a business. In business, you can go home and detach, but in your personal life, things are constantly changing. People who try to run their lives like a business often have control issues and become more anxious when things don’t go as planned. Sometimes you just have to roll with it and move on to the next thing. 

Is it a good idea to focus on one goal at a time? When it comes to personal goals, it's unrealistic to be singularly focused. We have so many aspects to us - our businesses, our jobs, our families, our friends. Trying to focus on one thing makes you susceptible to failure because so many things are not under your control. 

How can I make sure I am hiring the right people for my business? It's not just about hiring the right skill set, but also the right person who fits your company culture. Someone can be skillful, but if they don't fit the culture, they can be toxic. I use a test called a “Culture Index” to help match people to the right roles based on their personality and how they handle stress. 

What is the value of telling people your goals? We discussed how telling people your goals can be a form of self-sabotage, but it can also be a way to create an external accountability partner. I was part of a book club where I mentioned my goal to learn piano, and someone immediately said, “I’m going to hold you to it”. So sometimes, telling people your goals can be a trap. 

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